10 reasons why being single is overated...

Hello!
I guess I've been teachable when I see posts on facebook of the benefits being single! But gosh! enough is enough! I mean who said you become paralyzed when you meet the one.  Who says that you can't dream? or adventure? or do anything fun!? So, in the text below I'm just being real.  Its the only mode I really know.  SO real mode it is.  

Number 1.  "It is not good for man to be alone". Endorphins are released when laughs.  These make us feel good.  Laughter relieves stress, soothes tension, stimulates organs, relieves pain, improves your immune system.  Yes, you can laugh by yourself.  Yes, I do this but I don't really want to look silly 24/7.  Its always great to share a funny joke with someone you love.

Number 2.  "It is not good for man to be alone".  While traveling the world is great.  How much better would it be to share it with someone who you can create memories with?  They say that joy shared is joy doubled and sadness shared is sadness halved.  The joy of traveling is doubled when shared with someone you love.

Number 3.  "It is not good for man to be alone".  Who doesn't like inside jokes?  EVERYONE loves inside jokes.  They're personal.  They are little secrets shared.  When we forget the funny things we have that person that remembers they can remind us of these little nuisances that once made us laugh. Or the other way around we can remind each other of mile stones, victories, funny things that happened.

Number 4.  "It is not good for man to be alone".  In scripture it says when one brother stumbles another can help him up.  I guess this is referring to brother to brother but the same is true when we have that one person who can help us up/ we can help up when we're down or they're down.  Three stranded cord is better than one.  This kind of ties in with the previous point *it is not good for man to be alone.  

Number 5.  "It is not good for man to be alone".  There are various benefits of affection such as easing stress& anxiety, lower blood pressure and even boost memory.  Hugging a stranger is not the same.  It can even have the opposite effect.  I wouldn't even go as far as talking about displays of affection but a simple shoulder to shoulder is classified as a form of physical contact and can make one feel secure.   I can only imagine that hugging that one person (who is in it to win it/for the long run) doesn't quite compare to a casual friend who might only be a seasonal friend.  

So those are number 1-5, No 5-10 are why it is not good for woman to be alone and are exactly the same.  Notice my repetition technique for effect! Did it work?!

While this is all said and done I realise that some of you are thinking yes but you have God.  Yes, but you are still young.  Yes, you have friends.  A RESOUNDING Yes! YES! yes! I am fully aware of my gender, my date of birth, my religion and that I am currently wearing my granny pajamas.  

Much love,
Sarah.