WWW = what woman want

In the old_ish movie 'What woman want' Mel Gibson 'tries' to get into a womans world, he shaves his legs, and can even hear the thoughts of woman (surely all men know what is happening in our minds ;) ). Sometimes I think all men should try this. Put their feet in our heels (okay I'm not talking about cross dressing here ;)).

This leads me to my list of what woman want:
A list that has been compiled from talking girl talk

Woman wants a man with "A game" :
Below I've listed 3 A's which are qualities that girls look for in a guy

1. Woman want a man who is attentive. Someone who listens and remembers what you are saying weeks or even months after she has said it. Isn't it just the sweetest when a guy remembers a girls favourite coffee shop or coffee or even how many sugars she takes/doesn't? Woman like to feel heard. Actually woman need to feel heard. Some of my worst experiences have been feeling misunderstood or unheard. Woman want to be acknowledged and accepted. "you look pretty" can take a girl really far in boosting her self esteem and confidence.

2. Woman want a man who takes action. I think this is a basic one but sometimes guys need to be taught. If a guy says, 'hey, lets go for coffee' one would assume he follows through. This is a simple example but can set a president for how things work from the very first flirt or even coffee date. Guys when the time is right, grab her hand (don't assume that she will reach for yours first). No girl wants a lazy guy. This leads me to the next point, woman want a man of an adventure. If a man is lazy, there aint any adventure in that.

3. Woman want a man of adventure. I don't mean that he should be taking you all over the world every week end but a man that is on a mission and wants you to be part of it. Romance is so much more fulfilling when two people are looking outward instead of constantly inward. When the girl becomes the adventure, beware. A relationship focussed solely on one another will soon fizzle out . This puts a lot of pressure on a girl to be everything that this guy needs or wants. It is a lot healthier to find joy in hobbies, God and others.


These are just 3 points and there are many more. It's also unrealistic to ask for someone that we are not. So girls lets aim to be all these things too. Last tip, only invite people into your heart that treat you as well as you treat yourself_if not better.

that is about all I have to say for today! Girls, we are worth the effort and if she's worth keeping, she's worth fighting for!
Another movie of a man who is attentive, active and adventurous is 'the vow'.



enjoy loving!
Love,
Sarah