falling in love, falling out and falling in a million more times...

Falling in love fascinates me.  I often debate (with myself) whether or not falling in love is something than can be planned and chosen or if it is something instinctual.  I guess it is both.

Walks on the beach, listening to the rythymn of the waves crashing onto the shore, watching the sun peak over its shoulder, watching the ripples in the river, eating chocolate, feeling someone else's hands carefully and gently stroke your hand acknowledging your esse-how lovely?  These are generally what people who are in love do.  Are these not things that make people feel good?  Are these not things that make one fall in love?  Is it that one is in love that one does these things with someone or is it someone that makes one want to do all these things.  
Which came first? The egg or the chicken.

I truly believe that love is a choice to make and continue making when married. I guess doing fun things together help the process of falling in love.  

more questions that I don't have answers to...


questioning romantic,
Sarah xxx