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Tuesday, June 10, 2014

make him feel like the King that the King made him to be...


image from here


Once upon a time,
 I wrote a blogpost for us ladies...
(hence the pink typo)

The 3rd lovely thing that I read in 'Act like a lady, think like a man' is to give credit where credit is due.
Even in Educational studies we learn about positive reinforcement.  It is important to praise a child when they do something well.  It does not necessarily have to be that they have aced a Maths test but maybe they helped their friend clean up spilt milk.  Either way praise reinforces good behaviour.  The same is true with people (men in this case) in our lives.  It can be any man that you come across.  Thank them if they have done something nice or been thoughtful.  Its so simple but praise and encouragement can go a long way!

If a man loves you ( I men really loves you) he will want to please you.  He will want to see those pearly whites come out forming a smile on your face.  So just as much as I said in the last post that it is okay to have requirements, its just as important to thank him when he meets your needs and/or requirements. 

So go on give him a pat on the back for scratching yours!
or
a smile with a delightful 'thank you!'...
because after all they are Kings in the eyes of the King of heaven and earth!

Much love,
Single-yes but learning
Sarah
xxx

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